The next post will explore how we use this on women in pickup.

This will be mainly for guys who are new to “The Game”

Stand up straight and smile a lot. This conveys confidence.

Be more social. Don’t go out “trying” to meet someone. Approach guys, if for nothing else, just to meet and not sit in a corner with a friend you already know. Get to know other people besides people you already know. Makes sense right?

Especially approach groups of men that have women in them. Your goal is NOT to meet the women. In fact, try to ignore the women as much as you can without being rude.

You want to convey that you aren’t even trying to meet women.

You will look like a challenge to them. Think about it, every guy is trying to meet them-

Except YOU!!!

This will intrigue them. Ignore and keep talking to the guys they’re with. They’ll want to get your attention….don’t give it.

Even if you find out they aren’t even with the guys, even if you find out she just came back from a deserted island and told everybody she needs a man because she’s hornier than a bull…

You don’t care.

The goal is turn things around. Take all their power away and feel what it’s like for them to have have the final say.

This is a step on the road to getting THEM to chase YOU.

To get the girls, you should try and put yourself in their shoes.

Here’s a thought by Sun Tzu:

“If you know yourself but not your enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat.”

Think about that because soon you will have stolen all of their tricks and used them yourself.

Try and imagine what it would be like if you became a “fat chick magnet” and every big-boned girl in the land came out of the woodwork and flirted with you all day long, tried to touch you, grab you, sit in your lap, etc.

This is where TESTING comes into play.

1. Long-term relationship material

2. Short-term “fling” material

3. “Let’s Just Be Friends” material

4. Chode material

5. George McFly in “Back To The Future”

1. Flaking out on dates and plans with little or no notice.

2. Asking for gifts or favors when you barely know her. (I call this “My Humps Syndrome”)

3. Being bratty, demanding, overly dramatic, or manipulative to see if you’ll put up with it

4. Listing things she doesn’t like about your behavior

5. Playing you against another guy in her life.

…and so on.

You already know, girls will use more SUBTLE tests as well.

One example is, complaining that you don’t answer her directly, to see if she can get you to.

Or telling you that you’re doing something annoying to her.

The main problem is giving in to these tests and thus giving her all of your power.

Her: What kind of car do you drive?
You: Do you always dress like that?

Her: What do you do for work?
You: (cough) Do you have a tissue?

Her: What kind of degree do you have?
You: I went to McDonald’s Burger College…I have a Masters in Fryology and a B.A. in kangaroo meat.

You have to be more of a challenge.

I want comments on this. I plan to expand on this topic because it is a VITAL area of The Game.

From the very first interaction, women will test you. This is reality. They will keep on testing until the day you die. No matter if it’s a 1 week fling to a 50 year marriage, they will persist…forever.

Passing their tests is a NECESSITY if you plan to be successful. Period.

“How do they test?” you ask. And more importantly….”Why?”

They need to find out something VERY IMPORTANT about you. Without this, she puts herself at stake.

You’re about to find out what this is in a moment…

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle English, vessel in which metals were assayed, potsherd, from Anglo-French test, tees pot, Latin testum earthen vessel; akin to Latin testa earthen pot, shell

1 : a critical examination, observation, or evaluation : Trial; specifically : the procedure of submitting a statement to such conditions or operations as will lead to its proof or disproof or to its acceptance or rejection test of a statistical hypothesis> (2) : a basis for evaluation : an ordeal or oath required as proof of conformity with a set of beliefs

2 : a means of testing: as (1) : a procedure, reaction, or reagent used to identify or characterize a substance or constituent (2) : something (as a series of questions or exercises) for measuring the skill, knowledge, intelligence, capacities, or aptitudes of an individual or group : a positive result in such a test

3 : a result or value determined by testing

So basically, they’re just trying to figure you out. And THEY HAVE TO.

Mostly, they go by the things you don’t say, and go by the things you do.

Are you with me here?

They can’t come out, point blank, and ask you certain things. It COULD be a LIE.

In other words, if you get to the end of one of your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask you if you have a comprehensive understanding of the material you learned during the course.

But you could LIE.

So the teacher gives a TEST to see if you REALLY know your stuff.

Well, in the same way that teachers test students, women test MEN. Including YOU.

But , as sure as those words are, the difference between girl tests and the kinds of tests that teachers give you…

Women don’t announce they are testing you! What’s worse is, unlike a teacher…

They don’t teach you what you need to know BEFORE they test you.

They just do it.

Exactly when they meet you.

From the first few seconds, actually.

Why?

Because women don’t have the TIME to deal with all the guys who are interested in them.

And they’re not interested in getting together with a man who doesn’t “get it” in the first place.

Beautiful women aren’t looking for a guy to TRAIN.

And the tests don’t stop… by the way.

If you meet an attractive, interesting, emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be tested until either:

1) The relationship ends.

2) You or she DIES.

Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of things.

Some women will test to see if you have money.

Some will test to see if you’ll SPEND your money on them.

Some will test to see if you’re intelligent.

And some will test to see if you’re loyal.

But BY FAR, in my experience, most women will test you initially to see if you’re a CHUMP!

That’s right…

The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to “know” about you is whether or not you’re a submissive, ass-kisser who has no balls.

And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in the towel.

If you are a Wussy, and you fail the “Next Nice Guy, Chump Tests” that she throws at you, then you have little chance succeeding with the girl who is testing you.

Actually, MOST men fail with MOST women…MOST of the time.

As a side note:

There is one exception to this rule.

If you act like the “Average Frust Chump”, but you’re willing to pursue a woman for a few YEARS, and deal with the idea that you have about a 1 in 100 chance, then you MIGHT be able to convince her to marry you.

But like I said, the chances are VERY slim, and
the effort required just isn’t worth it.

There is a FAR better way…

On of the most interesting thing about “chick tests” is that, they’re not ever OBVIOUS.

At least most men can’t tell.

In FACT, I’d go so far as to say that 99% of all the tests that women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.

They’re right out in the open, obvious to other women (and a few men), but for the most part, they go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED.

For instance, let’s say that you’re standing and talking to some friends, and you make eye contact with the cute girl standing close to you.

What do most guys do?

They look away.

And they do it FAST.

Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a few seconds.

But it’s already too late.

TEST FAILED.

Here’s another…

Let’s say you’re at a bar talking to a girl, and she says “Hey, buy me a drink”.

You say “Great, what do you want?”.

Guess what?

She just told you what to do, and you went for it without a second thought.

Or maybe you’ve started a conversation with a group of girls at a coffee shop.

One of them says that she doesn’t like your shoes.

You say “Oh, well I wasn’t planning on seeing anyone important today… I just put on whatever I
could find”.

In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for yourself.

As you can probably guess, that’s a BAD IDEA.

In that moment, you have just failed the test with flying colors.

As you think back in your life about all of the situations with women that went BAD, you’ll begin to notice that you were TESTED, and you FAILED.

In one way or another, you probably missed some VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you wound up failing.

RESULT: She hit the road.

It’s happened to all of us.

If I had a dollar for every time…

lol…

I went through this one SO many times that it’s PAINFUL.

I should probably get the dumbass award for most tests failed with women.

And before I give you tips on handling tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT basis, then you should get yourself some “in-depth” reprogramming on a DEEP level, like I did. The place is to do that here…

Next post will be: How To Deal With Tests

You’ll hear it time and time again once you’ve explored our community, the saying is this-

This saying is credited to David DeAngelo and has been adopted by everyone because we know how true the statement is.

Evolutionarily speaking, our unconscious goal in mating is to pass our genes on to the next generation. To explain attraction scientifically, we’re basically looking at a mate to size up if they can help us produce healthy offspring. But it goes deeper than looks.

Sure, various health indicators such as facial symmetry and physique are factored in, but they aren’t all-important and definitive. There are ways to make yourself appear more physically attractive, such as:

Smiling easily (shows confidence)
A Strong, confident posture
Careful grooming

So we see two instances of confidence. Most girls point to this as the #1 characteristic they look for in a man who approaches them. Stand up straight and smile easily and you will appear more confident, and thus more attractive.

Also, don’t stand there staring and trying to work up the nerve to talk to her. She’ll notice and realize that you AREN’T confident. Trust me, they have radar for guys that orbit around them for too long without saying anything.

Go IN right away. Even if you can only manage to say “Hi” before you run away like a little girl, upon reflection, you’ll realize that she said “Hi” back and didn’t start screaming or begin laughing at you. Start doing it more and more. I promise you, it will get easier and easier.

Now, to PROVE that attraction is not a choice, think about this-

Girls think Vin Diesel is HOT! (I think he is “the missing link” between man and ape. He also sounds like a mongoloid.)

There are tons of ugly rockstars and actors, yet you’ll see beautiful women who are CONVINCED they are attractive. If you think it’s because of money, you need to change your thinking or find another blog to read. Do a google search for “Self Defeating Blogs”

If you want to learn the real reason, here’s a hint:

The reason is: Social Proof

We’ll explore that next time.

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It will be mainly infrequent and mostly haphazard. I guarantee it.

What I also guarantee is that your email address is safe with me. I HATE SPAM!!!

To recap:

A free newsletter, about nothing, with no defined goal…Will that work for you?

I bet you’re already asking yourself,”Where do I sign up for this AMAZING OFFER!?”

Chill man, if you haven’t noticed yet, it’s over on the right hand side…see it?

Keep going, keep going, one more centimeter……DISCO!

Love,
Diabolik

P.S. It’s all fun and games until someone loses an eye.

Here’s a little Amazon Store I built with some books for suggested reading. If you have any suggestions for books to add, throw me a comment.

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First and foremost, PUA’s don’t believe in luck. We MAKE OUR OWN LUCK by using our skills and tools. We learn the psychology of persuasion (think sales, advertising, politicians, and so on) to influence the world around us. We influence attraction using behavioral science and whatever else we have at our disposal.

The human mind is an out of date computer. Sophisticated, yet outdated. Nothing much has really changed since the dawn of the caveman. Women became attracted to men then basically for the same reasons they do in the present. Guys that were successful then would be successful today…but with better clothing.

They would be labeled “Naturals” by us and you should learn from them.

How? By asking them what they do? We’ve found that these guys do things that THEY AREN’T EVEN aware of… things that made women literally pursue THEM.

So our little community took all of this information and combined it with the other things we’ve learned… For years, men have worked like mad scientists for a years on this because they really wanted to get this area of life figured out. Lucky for us, they shared their findings…

As you probably imagine, some pretty amazing techniques for meeting women, getting emails and phone numbers, taking things to “physical” level, and everything in between have been developed.

Once you begin to understand how and why women are attracted to certain types of men, and how the human “mating dance” works, you will SEE things differently. You’ll understand things in a new way. It’s like putting on a pair of X-Ray glasses… and seeing things in a totally new way.

Can you identify with the following painful sequence?:

1) Meet girl.

2) Get along well with girl.

3) Feel attracted to girl and think she is attracted to you.

4) Tell girl that you like her (after getting up the nerve).

5) Girl disappears.

6) Call girl 47 times, but still no response.

7) Finally girl turns up and says, “I only like you as a friend and sorry if I hurt you”.

…Ouch. I know it’s a bummer, but you might take comfort knowing that this has happened to me and just about every guy I know MANY times. UNTIL…

I got smart and decided to do something about it. The internet is a wonderful thing. Information is EVERYWHERE. The luckiest ones find our little community and take the next step.

I’m going to take a shot at explaining what’s going on here and hopefully help you and the others reading this to avoid this kind of thing as much as possible in the future.

1) Women are complex and often illogical (so are men, but in different ways).

2) Women are attracted to men for reasons that most men either don’t know, don’t understand, or won’t accept.

3) The way that women communicate isn’t always as “direct and straightforward” as most of us guys would like.

4) It’s difficult to un-do one of these situations once it has reached this point.

5) There are things you can do to avoid this kind of thing in the future.

That’s the point of this blog.

Read this piece by the mad scientist himself…

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Love,
Diabolik

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Here’s the first review on my blog, and it’s been a while since I’ve written one. I’m a bit rusty, so forgive me. I want it to be a “no holds barred” review so I’ll probably add to it a bit later. I want it to be thorough, detailed, and completely honest. If you’ve already read the book and think I should be a bit harder on it, I’ll consider suggestions.

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