And the thing is, I’m being extremely limited here on blogger. There’s much more that I want to do. So, the solution is to move to my own domain and have my own site.

This might hurt me in the short term, but in the long run, I hope it will serve many more people. I hope I don’t lose too many from the audience I’ve built so far in this short amount of time. I invite you to grow along with me.

The adventure continues….

Questions? Comments?

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For many of you, attracting women can seem like rocket science - if the problem is worked out for you already on paper, you can look at it and THEN fully understand why it works - Something will suddenly CLICK!

But trying to solve it by yourself, when push comes to shove and all eyes feel like they’re on you - that’s another story. Especially when you don’t have the playbook to sneak a peek at.

The solution - Take what has already been figured out and tested, thousands of times, and then jump directly into the field and practice. The answers you seek have been found, all the complicated formulas have been solved - BACKWARDS and FORWARDS! Stop feeling the fear of not knowing what to do.

Many of you I’ve had the pleasure to really get to know over time have eventually turned out to be very cool. You have great things going for you, but people just need to take the time to get to know you.

Other guys, its immediate and obvious - people can tell you have your act together.

Therein lies the difference between effective and ineffective approaches to women. Many guys in the scene have studied attraction for months or years without trying a single technique in the field.

The ones that DO feel liberated by a new understanding of how attraction science works. Let me tell you - It feels good to win. To come home with 5 numbers and 5 different options to meet up with women down the road. And that’s worst case scenario.

But frustratingly, some guys can’t seem to consistently use this knowledge to get new girls into their lives at the level they’d like. They know that pickup is just a skillset - not a magic trick… and they feel relief knowing that.

They still can’t seem to use that skillset to consistently go out, day after day, and come back home with a new woman in their life. So they’re compelled to read more and more, while wishing on a star.

Reading CAN help tremendously, practicing is the next step…but when you truly understand that it’s all just a learnable skill and you aren’t progressing to the next stage…it’s time to see how it’s done.

BOOTCAMP

Some of the greatest masters of attraction will take you out live and show you where you’re going wrong. It’s their job to prove that the books they write are actually worth something - and that they’re not just theory. If someone can’t take you out live and prove their method, in front of your eyes, maybe you shouldn’t buy their book.

I think I’m just further clarifying what this blog is about, for you AND I. I’m not here to push anything on anybody that I don’t have 100% faith in. You won’t see “Crap Gurus” here. You will only find PROVEN and WORTHY mentors here. If I have a book here that you may have already been interested in getting - by all means, grab it…You’ll be glad you did.

I ran into this and thought it looked kinda cool. Might be a sneak peek.

Inside The Mind Of Mystery - Pickup Artist’s Magnum Opus

I realize now that I’ve placed a link on the blog and not given an explanation for newbies. The link is called Clubwear and Peacocking Gear…but you may not have a clue what peacocking is or why we do it. So without further ado:

Peacocking is dressing for attention. By wearing interesting clothing, you make it easier for the opposite sex to approach and open you. It’s not just limited to clothing, jewelry can be used in this way too. I’m not talking about gold or platinum teef and expensive watches or gold chains. Obvious “bling” displays can actually counteract the effect we’re going for.

Pick out interesting items that someone can comment on. The best display of a tasteful item I’ve seen has been an old fashioned picture locket. The thing is, if you have a really cool story to tell about the item, all the better.

What you wear can also sub-communicate a lot of information about who you are. If you wear something that really stands out, perhaps a bit outlandish, people WILL notice. If you can wear crazy stuff, and know how to pull it off, it demonstrates that you can handle social pressure. VERY attractive to women!

IT SCREAMS CONFIDENCE!!!

Ever heard a woman describe her perfect idea of a man without mentioning the word Confident?

If you don’t have this, then it’s time to start building up your confidence. I’ll mention some ways to get this under control in a future post.

How about dropping me a line? Got a question, comments, story to tell? Leave a comment here and a way to get in touch. If you leave me a comment that should be kept private, it will be. I would like to focus on readers needs and answer questions in a way that helps everybody.

Recognize it? Good song, right? As long as you don’t “take it internally” I’d say it’s safe. Here’s a bit more…

Shes walking down the street
Blind to every eye she meets
Do you think you’ll be the guy
To make the queen of the angels sigh?
Hello, I love you
Wont you tell me your name?

Is this a Chodey Anthem or WHAT!?

This is NOT reality. This is NOT how to go about things, and songs like this are bad for mental health. Listening to songs like this can distort your reality to a point where you idealize the lyrics as the “be all, end all” of what a relationship is…

Jim Morrison knew better. Can’t understand why he would sing this stuff. If this is your frame of the world, best to quit it…cold turkey.

The person in this song is basically a sniveling beggar who’s putting this one girl on a pedestal. In reality, she’s not going to give this guy the time of day.

She wants someone she can RESPECT. She wants someone BETTER THAN HER.

I’m not entirely sure if the lyrics are 100% sincere, it’s almost as if he’s making fun of this behavior, and rightly so!

Sidewalk crouches at her feet
Like a dog that begs for something sweet
Do you hope to make her see, you fool?
Do you hope to pluck this dusky jewel?

The point here is to not focus on one, particular person as the key to your happiness based on how good she looks.

Focus on the many. Look at things in a new frame. Be more selective, and you’ll do better.

“Love is not the end of the world, love is the beginning of the world. Many people write about the subject of love as if that was some ultimate attainment to aspire to …you can have love but you can go beyond that, into realms that are even more interesting.”

-Frank Zappa

So starting at ZERO, your first step is to get some friends and build up some social value.

No more being “the creepy loner“…

BUT it is NOT IMPOSSIBLE!

I was someone who never had a problem moving within these social circles, even though I wasn’t really a “member”.

This is one of my all time favorite videos from the community. This is the one that shows would be doubters how real this whole thing is. So, if you were, up until now, skeptical of the seduction community, let us now open your eyes to what could be waiting for you.

Watch as “The Real Loverboy” goes from “Average Frustrated Chump” to World Class PUA.
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