Why do some guys have ALL the luck ?
First and foremost, PUA’s don’t believe in luck. We MAKE OUR OWN LUCK by using our skills and tools. We learn the psychology of persuasion (think sales, advertising, politicians, and so on) to influence the world around us. We influence attraction using behavioral science and whatever else we have at our disposal.
The human mind is an out of date computer. Sophisticated, yet outdated. Nothing much has really changed since the dawn of the caveman. Women became attracted to men then basically for the same reasons they do in the present. Guys that were successful then would be successful today…but with better clothing.
They would be labeled “Naturals” by us and you should learn from them.
How? By asking them what they do? We’ve found that these guys do things that THEY AREN’T EVEN aware of… things that made women literally pursue THEM.
So our little community took all of this information and combined it with the other things we’ve learned… For years, men have worked like mad scientists for a years on this because they really wanted to get this area of life figured out. Lucky for us, they shared their findings…
As you probably imagine, some pretty amazing techniques for meeting women, getting emails and phone numbers, taking things to “physical” level, and everything in between have been developed.
Once you begin to understand how and why women are attracted to certain types of men, and how the human “mating dance” works, you will SEE things differently. You’ll understand things in a new way. It’s like putting on a pair of X-Ray glasses… and seeing things in a totally new way.
Can you identify with the following painful sequence?:
1) Meet girl.
2) Get along well with girl.
3) Feel attracted to girl and think she is attracted to you.
4) Tell girl that you like her (after getting up the nerve).
5) Girl disappears.
6) Call girl 47 times, but still no response.
7) Finally girl turns up and says, “I only like you as a friend and sorry if I hurt you”.
…Ouch. I know it’s a bummer, but you might take comfort knowing that this has happened to me and just about every guy I know MANY times. UNTIL…
I got smart and decided to do something about it. The internet is a wonderful thing. Information is EVERYWHERE. The luckiest ones find our little community and take the next step.
I’m going to take a shot at explaining what’s going on here and hopefully help you and the others reading this to avoid this kind of thing as much as possible in the future.
1) Women are complex and often illogical (so are men, but in different ways).
2) Women are attracted to men for reasons that most men either don’t know, don’t understand, or won’t accept.
3) The way that women communicate isn’t always as “direct and straightforward” as most of us guys would like.
4) It’s difficult to un-do one of these situations once it has reached this point.
5) There are things you can do to avoid this kind of thing in the future.
That’s the point of this blog.
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