From the very first interaction, women will test you. This is reality. They will keep on testing until the day you die. No matter if it’s a 1 week fling to a 50 year marriage, they will persist…forever.

Passing their tests is a NECESSITY if you plan to be successful. Period.

“How do they test?” you ask. And more importantly….”Why?”

They need to find out something VERY IMPORTANT about you. Without this, she puts herself at stake.

You’re about to find out what this is in a moment…

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle English, vessel in which metals were assayed, potsherd, from Anglo-French test, tees pot, Latin testum earthen vessel; akin to Latin testa earthen pot, shell

1 : a critical examination, observation, or evaluation : Trial; specifically : the procedure of submitting a statement to such conditions or operations as will lead to its proof or disproof or to its acceptance or rejection test of a statistical hypothesis> (2) : a basis for evaluation : an ordeal or oath required as proof of conformity with a set of beliefs

2 : a means of testing: as (1) : a procedure, reaction, or reagent used to identify or characterize a substance or constituent (2) : something (as a series of questions or exercises) for measuring the skill, knowledge, intelligence, capacities, or aptitudes of an individual or group : a positive result in such a test

3 : a result or value determined by testing

So basically, they’re just trying to figure you out. And THEY HAVE TO.

Mostly, they go by the things you don’t say, and go by the things you do.

Are you with me here?

They can’t come out, point blank, and ask you certain things. It COULD be a LIE.

In other words, if you get to the end of one of your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask you if you have a comprehensive understanding of the material you learned during the course.

But you could LIE.

So the teacher gives a TEST to see if you REALLY know your stuff.

Well, in the same way that teachers test students, women test MEN. Including YOU.

But , as sure as those words are, the difference between girl tests and the kinds of tests that teachers give you…

Women don’t announce they are testing you! What’s worse is, unlike a teacher…

They don’t teach you what you need to know BEFORE they test you.

They just do it.

Exactly when they meet you.

From the first few seconds, actually.

Why?

Because women don’t have the TIME to deal with all the guys who are interested in them.

And they’re not interested in getting together with a man who doesn’t “get it” in the first place.

Beautiful women aren’t looking for a guy to TRAIN.

And the tests don’t stop… by the way.

If you meet an attractive, interesting, emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be tested until either:

1) The relationship ends.

2) You or she DIES.

Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of things.

Some women will test to see if you have money.

Some will test to see if you’ll SPEND your money on them.

Some will test to see if you’re intelligent.

And some will test to see if you’re loyal.

But BY FAR, in my experience, most women will test you initially to see if you’re a CHUMP!

That’s right…

The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to “know” about you is whether or not you’re a submissive, ass-kisser who has no balls.

And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in the towel.

If you are a Wussy, and you fail the “Next Nice Guy, Chump Tests” that she throws at you, then you have little chance succeeding with the girl who is testing you.

Actually, MOST men fail with MOST women…MOST of the time.

As a side note:

There is one exception to this rule.

If you act like the “Average Frust Chump”, but you’re willing to pursue a woman for a few YEARS, and deal with the idea that you have about a 1 in 100 chance, then you MIGHT be able to convince her to marry you.

But like I said, the chances are VERY slim, and
the effort required just isn’t worth it.

There is a FAR better way…

On of the most interesting thing about “chick tests” is that, they’re not ever OBVIOUS.

At least most men can’t tell.

In FACT, I’d go so far as to say that 99% of all the tests that women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.

They’re right out in the open, obvious to other women (and a few men), but for the most part, they go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED.

For instance, let’s say that you’re standing and talking to some friends, and you make eye contact with the cute girl standing close to you.

What do most guys do?

They look away.

And they do it FAST.

Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a few seconds.

But it’s already too late.

TEST FAILED.

Here’s another…

Let’s say you’re at a bar talking to a girl, and she says “Hey, buy me a drink”.

You say “Great, what do you want?”.

Guess what?

She just told you what to do, and you went for it without a second thought.

Or maybe you’ve started a conversation with a group of girls at a coffee shop.

One of them says that she doesn’t like your shoes.

You say “Oh, well I wasn’t planning on seeing anyone important today… I just put on whatever I
could find”.

In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for yourself.

As you can probably guess, that’s a BAD IDEA.

In that moment, you have just failed the test with flying colors.

As you think back in your life about all of the situations with women that went BAD, you’ll begin to notice that you were TESTED, and you FAILED.

In one way or another, you probably missed some VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you wound up failing.

RESULT: She hit the road.

It’s happened to all of us.

If I had a dollar for every time…

lol…

I went through this one SO many times that it’s PAINFUL.

I should probably get the dumbass award for most tests failed with women.

And before I give you tips on handling tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT basis, then you should get yourself some “in-depth” reprogramming on a DEEP level, like I did. The place is to do that here…

Next post will be: How To Deal With Tests