I realize now that I’ve placed a link on the blog and not given an explanation for newbies. The link is called Clubwear and Peacocking Gear…but you may not have a clue what peacocking is or why we do it. So without further ado:

Peacocking is dressing for attention. By wearing interesting clothing, you make it easier for the opposite sex to approach and open you. It’s not just limited to clothing, jewelry can be used in this way too. I’m not talking about gold or platinum teef and expensive watches or gold chains. Obvious “bling” displays can actually counteract the effect we’re going for.

Pick out interesting items that someone can comment on. The best display of a tasteful item I’ve seen has been an old fashioned picture locket. The thing is, if you have a really cool story to tell about the item, all the better.

What you wear can also sub-communicate a lot of information about who you are. If you wear something that really stands out, perhaps a bit outlandish, people WILL notice. If you can wear crazy stuff, and know how to pull it off, it demonstrates that you can handle social pressure. VERY attractive to women!

IT SCREAMS CONFIDENCE!!!

Ever heard a woman describe her perfect idea of a man without mentioning the word Confident?

If you don’t have this, then it’s time to start building up your confidence. I’ll mention some ways to get this under control in a future post.