Stand up straight and smile a lot. This conveys confidence.

Be more social. Don’t go out “trying” to meet someone. Approach guys, if for nothing else, just to meet and not sit in a corner with a friend you already know. Get to know other people besides people you already know. Makes sense right?

Especially approach groups of men that have women in them. Your goal is NOT to meet the women. In fact, try to ignore the women as much as you can without being rude.

You want to convey that you aren’t even trying to meet women.

You will look like a challenge to them. Think about it, every guy is trying to meet them-

Except YOU!!!

This will intrigue them. Ignore and keep talking to the guys they’re with. They’ll want to get your attention….don’t give it.

Even if you find out they aren’t even with the guys, even if you find out she just came back from a deserted island and told everybody she needs a man because she’s hornier than a bull…

You don’t care.

The goal is turn things around. Take all their power away and feel what it’s like for them to have have the final say.

This is a step on the road to getting THEM to chase YOU.

To get the girls, you should try and put yourself in their shoes.

Here’s a thought by Sun Tzu:

“If you know yourself but not your enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat.”

Think about that because soon you will have stolen all of their tricks and used them yourself.